In my free time, I like to leave long meaningful messages in random girls’ inboxes on dating sites. Here’s what I wrote to this user after browsing through her profile:
“You’re beginning to think you’re wasting your time maybe it’s perhaps you’re only looking for one type of guy (i.e. 6’1”, Athletic, Caucasian). Maybe you should try being a little more diverse since you’re a mixed race yourself. I can’t convince you to change your preferences but I’m willing to open your mind. I’m 6’2”, don’t have the perfect body and I’m Asian so I’m already disqualified. But just remember; the perfect match doesn’t necessarily have to be the perfect person. Think about it. Good luck.”
- Justin Chang (@hopelesslyromanticallyhopeless)
Sometimes I wonder if a girl would ever be proud of being my girlfriend. Would she think that she is the luckiest girl in the world? And would she love me unconditionally? Maybe if I was better-looking, a girl would be interested in dating me.
- Justin Chang
“I would do what ever it takes to win your heart; even if it means taking the risk of giving up mine to you first just to show you the sacrifices that I am willing to make.” - Justin Chang (@socaljc) #QuoteOfTheDay
“When it comes to love, it’s common to be fearful of our emotions; it’s what makes us human. But the biggest fear of love is knowing that you may never be good enough. While there are those with good looks, a nice body, a fancy car or lots of money that can attract the opposite sex, in the end it’s not what you can feel with your hands but what you feel in your heart when you meet the right person. But when the person I believe is the right one for me chooses to be with the wrong one, that is what I am most afraid of.”
- Justin Chang (@hopelesslyromanticallyhopeless)
Written by Justin Chang (@hopelesslyromanticallyhopeless)
There are guys out there who can get several girls to go out with them yet here I am just trying to find one girl to go out with me. I wish I was good-looking.
- Justin Chang (@hopelesslyromanticallyhopeless)
Story of my life.
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Why lead me on if you were planning to get back with your ex?
- Justin Chang
I cringe inside when people ask me why I don’t have a girlfriend. I just shrug my shoulders and tell them, “I don’t know” but in truth, I do know; I’m not good-looking and girls don’t find me attractive to get to know me. I cry myself to sleep on most nights over the last several years that I have been single, wishing that for once when I like a girl, she would like me in return and we could start a beautiful relationship. But I’m never good enough. I don’t have a good-looking face, a nice smile or a great body; all I have is my my broken heart and my hopeless romantic personality. I wish I was handsome. And I wish I was loved.
- Justin Chang
When I see profile pictures of guys where they put their pointer finger and middle finger together to resemble a gun and place it at the side of their head, I wish the gun was real and they would pull the trigger. In other words, if you think you have SWAG, go shoot yourself in the head.
SWAG = Suicide With A Gun.
- Justin Chang
When I see a guy with a beautiful girl by his side, I am filled with envy; Jealous of the fact that he has a girl to call his own while here I am, still single and can’t even get a girl to go out with me. I know I have a great personality, better than most men, as well as knowing how to treat a women and I’ve always been told that is all I need but no girl will even look at me because although my personality may be great, they’ll never know that because I’m not good-looking enough for them to want to get to know me.
- Justin Chang
